what he is

We are not married yet.

And even though the guy sleeps on the couch, or in a spare bed, it does not mean that the kids do not get some questions.

But I love how they handle them. Love that they love him already.

"Who is that guy that drops you off at school."

"Oh that is Rick."

"Yeah but who is he? Is he your dad."

"No, he is my Rick."

"Like your nanny?"

"No, my Rick."

"Is he like your mom's friend?"

"No - he is all of our friend. He is my Rick."