In case anyone was wondering who the snarky, bitchy blogger is that I wrote about a while back - I'll just let it out.
Her name is MOIRA, and apparently she has nothing else to do with her life than creep and gossip on mine. Where she got my blog addresses I can only guess (but it's a good guess). Regardless, she feels the need to gossip about me to her significant other, who feels the need to share things that aren't worth sharing with my ex - who really doesn't want to hear it - or deserve to be hurt.
The absolute truth, is that maybe she should consider her motives. She isn't helping anyone - except maybe her own ego. Is my life really that interesting? I assume that she is not sharing all of the nasty things she has said about members of her own family over the years.
Did you hear that Grandma B? Or her husband? Oh yeah - I heard alllllll of it . . . but - as Moira loves to quote - "integrity is doing the right thing - even when nobody is watching," so that's all I'll say here.
She knows nothing about my life, but follows it like a college freshman hooked on a soap opera. WTF is her deal?
If she is reading this - and she is - (reporting back to people she thinks will care but really don't). Please leave him alone. I talk to him more than you do - and believe it or not, just want his life to go on and be as wonderful as it can be. You only know half of what you think you do - and none of it is your business anyway. He has told me repeatedly that he is sick of hearing about it - so read all you want - gossip at work all you want - blog all you want - but have a bit of sympathy and discretion for God's sake. He doesn't want to hear it from you or him - he has told me so specifically. And if he did want to know any of it - as you well know, he has had this blog url since I started writing here. He CHOOSES not to read it. Who are you to make decisions for him - especially when the only mission you accomplish is hurting him?
I take as many precautions as I can to make sure that he doesn't have to deal with hurtful things - he does the same. We respect each other that way. Wish you could show that same respect to the people you supposedly care about.
The thing is - MOIRA is not worth my time. I realized that long ago. But when she purposely gossips just to spread hurt to a really good man - makes me think she is not really worth anybody's time at all.
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She's a dick.
For some back-assward reason she's trying to cover that little nugget up by making whatever is going on in your world seem evil. Which it absolutely is NOT.
I repeat: She's a dick.
Hook me up with her blog and it's on. :)
Where have you been? Yours was the first blog I read and I've been waiting forever for an update. Moira sounds like a moron. Jo
Yep, I read your Blog, it is a public forum and all. I never thought you didn’t know. However, don’t assume that I go gossiping to him about what you’ve posted. Why would I bother doing that? And FYI, my husband doesn’t bring up stuff to him either, you know the men in that family don’t talk, you’ve been to family meals, you have said it yourself, all they talk about is Sci-Fi. So please, my god, stop assuming that we are the ones divulging this horrible information to him, my god, take some responsibility for your actions, and realize that it may actually be your own personal actions that are causing him pain. I didn’t tell him that you got yourself pregnant by another man while still married, you took care of that. Other than that, I’d really like to know what you think I have been telling him. Wait, never mind I couldn’t care less what you think I have been saying. Sure I have been reading this, but do I read for food for fodder? No. I read because you say this is where people will understand the truth. I would really like to hear the truth, to understand why someone, who seemed normal, decided to do something so abnormal, however, this Blog has never given any insight to that. I’d like to know what this history is behind what will eventually create the future of some amazing children that I still care about.
Sure, your friends can have my Blog address, and see for themselves how absolutely horrible I have been, trying to deal with a horrible situation that has also affected my life dearly. Don’t think for one second dear J that I haven’t cried over this; have I possibly cried more than you? I do have to say though, that it’s quite silly to finally explode on me and post something, months after my last posting, there have only been 2 this year, however, someone so self-righteous would imagine that my life does revolve around her own gossip, so here, good friends of J, here’s my Blog, http://bomburg.blogspot.com; enjoy. Though I can’t imagine what fun it is, since like I said, I have only posted twice this year. I really am on to better things in my life, sounds like you are too, how lovely.
Also dear J, don’t ever think that what I have said to you, that I haven’t said to the members of my family, do you really think that my husband doesn’t know how I have been feeling about him? Oh, well, I guess that’s the difference between our two relationships, I talk to my husband, and explain how I feel, we communicate, and though it might not always be great, and frankly who knows if it will last, I don’t lie or cheat on him. Do you really think my MIL doesn’t know I can find her overbearing? Duh! What MIL isn’t overbearing? However, that doesn’t mean there isn’t love there. My life isn’t built on some fantasy that I twist to make myself look good, I admit to my faults and I own up to them. So sure, I read this from time to time, maybe I am looking for you to admit just once that you may be at fault here. Or please, do so indulge us all with the truth; how it’s truly acceptable in your world to lie and cheat on your husband.
J - Just block her. Or change the blog to an approved list of readers.
Wow. I'm with Melanie. Why would you want her on your blog. She makes herself sound like a gossipy, immature high school brat.
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